I look up at him, and wonder how it is that I, an independent women enjoying the power of my 40's, am actually paying this 23 year kid to push me harder than I would ever want to be pushed on any given day. Worse than that, I basically have to surrender all control to him twice a week.
I look up at him and see the tattoo on his neck that reads "Never Look Down." His personal reminder to live only in the light of possibility and never in the darkness of "can't." It reminds me of why I am here, giving up all control and why I signed a year long contract with him.
Last week I wrote about how cycling was what started it all for me, but to be fair, before cycling there was Matt. The person to whom six months ago I humbled myself and confessed that I couldn't do squats, that it hurt to walk up stairs and that I had never done a push-up.
Although Matt's arrival in my life was entirely random, it was thoroughly lucky. On a very basic level we connect. What I like about him is that he understands the paradox of weight training. It is, in his words, "both the easiest and the hardest thing you will ever do." Easy in as much as it is about forming a habit, hard in as much as you have to push yourself to the point of pain--something that is counter intuitive for most of us.
"With training you can't cheat. You put in the work, and you will see the results." I know this to be true. Since we have started working together I have done well. But there have also been some days when I have been disappointed. It has been difficult at times not to look down.
It's times like these where, for me, having a personal trainer really pays off. Matt believes that everyone has a natural ability and it's just a matter of tapping into their goals to find the key to motivate them. Because he knows where I want to be, he is able to bring me around pretty quickly when I start to hang my head.
I ask Matt why he thinks some people who want to train are more successful than others. "You have to want it badly enough to do the work." he says. For him the physical aspect of it is a simple equation; hard work equals results and results fuel the desire to continue. Something anyone can achieve.
But he and I both know that there is also a major psychological component to training and to achieving any goal. It takes focus, determination and patience. Matt believes that you "take each goal rep by rep." I forget this a lot. Sometimes, like in life, I just want to get to the end of the set to mark it of as complete. Matt always reminds me that there is no payday at the end if you don't pay attention to details and view success as the sum of your experiences. Wise beyond his years, working with Matt makes me stronger on many levels.
Never quit,
Mary
Next time: Me? Running?
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